How I Met My Husband

How I Met My Husband

In May 2020, I was fresh out of a relationship that lasted just three months. I had taken a walk after seeing that I certainly didn’t run in the same circle as this guy whose values, priorities and interests were worlds apart from mine. I couldn’t see the slightest possibility of a future neither did I see a chance that there would be some sort of convergence in what we both wanted out of life so yea, I took that walk with my head up high but guess where I was headed, lol – Rich Aunty Vibes High Road

You couldn’t tell me nothing fam, I was ready to wear the rich aunty sleeves while enjoying all that life brought my way. I would date anyone I wanted anytime I wanted then do away with them when I thought I had had enough! Not because I had ever been hurt or anything as I ended all previous relationships I had ever been in and not the other way round. Besides, I only recall ever being treated like the Queen I am in previous relationships. This decision was probably borne out of the many progress I was making at work, the comfort of my bank account and the need to rest my analytical mind that works overtime in a relationship setting. Apparently within 3 months I figured way too many things about an individual that the precision and accuracy of it all scared me.

Full Story of How I Met My Husband

My Biggest Lesson

My writing would be heavily focused on lessons I learnt in the process as I have taken the time to chronicle how we met on my youtube channel. Click to watch above before reading this so you can get perspective as I write. Trust me, the incredible story teller – you would not miss a scene of all that transpired when we met, lol and honestly if I were you, I would subscribe so I don’t miss many more stories! OK back to lessons learnt

  • Sometimes, the best things are offered you when you aren’t looking out for them. At least I got interrupted on my high way street and got diverted to my husband’s house as per the lord shall not allow me let loose
  • God is interested in your choice of a life partner if you can just stop with the ‘it is my life I can do whatever I want with it’, rolls eyes
  • Hey my ladies, stay polite, ok? Let politeness be your default setting, regardless of the situation
  • Love the sound of your feet walking away from things and people that don’t belong to you. The trick is to ENJOY that sound then take that walk even if the relationship was only one day old
  • Age is on your side my darlings. The right age is the age you meet the right person (29 was mine)
  • The right person does exist but most times, he is a fusion of who your heart believes to be right based on the image you have held in your heart through the years and visions of the kind of home you have envisaged. My point? Deal with what you believe and what you envision. Make sure they mirror what God says and are befitting of you – You are so precious, Jesus had to die for you
  • While you may not hear a voice from heaven telling you the way to go, it is important to anticipate answers after praying. As a result, you should stay conscious and observant in your dealings with members of the opposite sex. You would find the answers with that posture
  • A good, I mean great man is possible. They exist out there but a man is only as great as your standards and expectations of him. Again, deal with the fundamentals. Get your measuring standards right
  • Whatever you do not nurture dies a natural death. A great relationship won’t nurture itself. You would commit to it and take deliberate steps to nurture a solid relationship and communication. You would make sure you are 100% present during conversations else you would miss vital, fine details that speak the most volume about a person

The right person is a fusion of who your heart believes to be right based on the image you have held in your heart through the years and visions of the kind of home you have envisaged.

Emmanuela Awoh

Would absolutely love to hear about your love stories. How you met your spouses and how you knew they were the one. What more on this subject would you like me to share? You got questions for me? Do ask and let me have fun reading your comments while you read the next post…

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